The key to making a girl want you is to find out what she wants. And, most girls probably want something different than what you think they want.
Making a girl want you can be easy, but still some guys try way too hard. If a girl isn’t interested initially, you could be wasting your time trying to get her. However, if you’re willing to put in some effort, here's how to get the girl.
What to say to a girl to make her want you?
Since not all girls want the same thing, how you talk to them will change with each situation. It can be as simple as saying the right thing to a girl to make her want you. Some want you to be very into them and attentive to their needs and others want you to play it cool and act like you’re not interested. It is important to understand what she wants and what kind of guy she’s attracted to.
If she wants you to be all about her, notice some things that she does or attributes about her that are specific to her and things that other people might not notice. Don’t be creepy about it though, just show that you’re paying attention. You can say that you like her style or notice that she tried a new hairstyle or got a haircut. Compliment her jewelry she’s wearing or how much better of a mood you’re in around her.
If she’s the type of girl that doesn’t want constant attention then you’re gonna have to play it cool. Staying busy and spending more time with your friends shows her you are hard to get a hold of, so when you two are together it is special. When you are with her, make her feel like the only girl in the world while staying cool. Once you are apart, resume your regular activities and don’t hit her up often. In reality this is toxic, but many girls want this because they feel like they may be able to change the guy.
How to make a girl want you over text?
To make a girl want you over text, you’re going to need to keep the conversation engaging and flirty. Don’t give too much and don’t respond too quickly. You want her to have time to think about you and what you’re doing but not too much time where she thinks you’re not interested. Make her laugh and try to start jokes between you guys so that you have something you can always reference if the conversation starts to get dull. You are going to want to be talking towards seeing each other, so if you’re not long distance, make sure you always have something planned. Solely texting is hard to keep going long term.
How do you make a girl fall in love with you?
Making a girl fall in love with you will take a bit of time. However, being consistent with seeing each other and communicating intimately will make her fall in love with you, potentially within months. In the beginning of a relationship, what people mistake for love is actually lust, so if you notice this, continue what you’re doing. You are on the road to having her head over heels.
How do I win her heart?
If you’re not having luck with the girl you’re going after, here are some tips to give you a better chance at getting her. But before changing yourself for someone who may not even be for you, remember that there are probably many other people out there that would fit what you want. However, these tips may just help your life overall.
1. Work on Yourself
Making a girl want you is a game of attraction. The first and foremost rule of this game is to look and feel good. Your physical health is your first priority so working out and staying fit by playing sports or picking up an active hobby will get you to attaining this goal.
Wearing good clothes and grooming yourself will show her that you are serious about your relationship. Girls want to show off whoever they are with, so constantly being presentable is very important.
2. Be a Gentlemen
Respect is the most important thing in any relationship. Without respect, your relationship will be a quick one-night stand. Girls love guys who know how to care for them and treat them with respect.
Put a significant difference between how you treat her and other women. Hold the door open for her, offer your jacket in cold weather, protect her and keep her safe, hug her longer and look into her eyes when you talk to her.
3. Find Similarities
Understanding each other is the most important thing for a long-lasting relationship.
If you know what she likes, she will be happy and surprised that you know. This will open the door for you to talk to her other interests because she will be more comfortable.
However, if you don’t like what she loves, still try to make the conversation more interesting and make her believe that differences in interest won’t shake your relationship.
4. Make Her Laugh
The easiest way to make a girl want you, is to make her laugh. Most girls love a funny man so working on your humor is very important. You can be funny even if you don’t find yourself funny.
Having a sense of humor for when she looks to you to bring her relief from stress and anxiety. Laughing relaxes a person by releasing endorphins and making them happy. You can use videos on TikTok or YouTube to inspire your humor if you are having trouble making her laugh. Being sarcastic or pointing out things around you two that you think is silly will make you both laugh. Showing her things you find funny will also create an illusion that you are the one making her laugh.
6. Share Your Secrets
In time, sharing things you don’t normally tell others is the best way to get her to open up to you. If you share your secrets with her, the bond between you and her will grow. Share with her your dreams, insecurities, and fears. When she notices your trust in her, she will start trusting you in return and tell you hers. It’s natural to be wary of new people and gain their trust. However, after you develop a sense of trust, you two will automatically be closer to each other.
7. Give Your Full Attention To Her
Give all of your attention to her by looking her in the eyes, taking the time to plan dates, and spend alone time with her. Make a mental note of what she brings up to you and recall these things in later conversations. If she feels like you pay attention, when she feels overwhelmed by her feelings, she will always come to you. The most important thing to do is to make her feel special as often as you can.
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